Hello, it has been a little over a week since my last post. I am glad to say the delay has been due to my having a hectic and joyful time. Last weekend, I was back in my ‘homeland’ (the UK) for Grandad-Norfolk’s wedding. By the way, Grandad-Norfolk is a pretty self-explanatory nickname my siblings gave our Grandad who lives in Norfolk. It was really very special to be in the presence of the love of two people who had had so much life experience. And with their individual life experiences came lots of family and many Grandchildren…
Altogether there were sixteen of us Grandchildren, from ages three to twenty-four. I expect it was a rather contemporary opportunity to be at our Grandparents’ Wedding, yet one – I hope – shall become not uncommon. Before the big day I was unsure what to expect. I was very happy that Grandad-Norfolk had found someone he could enjoy and love in his next passage of life. However, I was totally unprepared for the romance that appeared to me between the two lovers in their late seventies during their wedding ceremony.
The only way I can describe to you how I felt – or ‘envisioned’ – this romance, is as if it were a dragonfly. The subtle fluttering of its fragile wings hovered around the room whilst undulating between the guests. I was lucky enough for the dragonfly to land on my skin for some moments where upon I was touched greatly. I was thrilled to be a part of this celebration in which Grandad-Norfolk and Hazel lay out their rights to love and be happy in life for all to see.
Weddings are a great opportunity for families to congregate in one place. I relished this unique time I had to reach out to the family members I had drifted away from in the past few years. I was able to reengage my roots with aunts, uncles, cousins and even siblings. Not only did I reconnect with family, but during the celebrations I also gained more family members whom I value greatly!
When it was time to come back to Ireland I was glad to return home – to my little nest. Not long after adjusting to reality, my childhood friend Abi arrived in Wexford. Yesterday was our first day together in yonks.
It was effortless and unrevised, as our conversation flowed. Gradually, we became our long-lost younger selves – it was just too tempting. The fun we used to have together, realising the power and beauty of our youthful femininity. Anyway, now in our mid-twenties, the mood became very excitable and amorous for life. So we decided that there was only one way to celebrate this friendship. It had to be slightly silly, fun, scary and just a tad ‘naughty’… Soon we found ourselves simultaneously having our belly buttons pierced.
A day later and we keep looking at our jeweled belly buttons – like children looking down at their new shoes! It will be something I will always remember doing with my dear friend Abi.
For me there is something mystic and yet wholly organic about both romantic friendships and childhood friendships that I hope will fill me with joy for all my life!
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